When Leaders Cry!
(Can You Hear Me Now?)
In view of the alarming statistics concerning the recent spike in 21st Century Pastors/Leaders abandoning America's pulpits, and in some cases committing suicide; I felt compelled to address this most pressing issue, and share a few insights and provocations from a recent Leadership Series I've developed for both Pastors and Business Leaders, designed to help them identify the essential relationships they need in their life, so that they can achieve the balance necessary for a fulfilling life,that goes beyond the calling and purpose of their life.
It is reported that more than 1,700 pastors leave the Ministry every month. It has been proven statistically that one of the major causes of Burn-Out & Moral Failure in Senior Pastors is discouragement; Because they don’t know who they can trust with their vulnerability. It is reported by Tim Peters, at ChurchLeaders.com, that over 50% of Pastors are dealing with chronic discouragement, because the complaints seem louder than the compliments, and 70% of Pastors report that they have no one they trust as a true close friend.
The challenge that must be addressed is while it is the responsibility of the Pastor to hear the voice of God and the voice of People; Who hears the Pastor’s voice?
The Balance of the Pastor requires SPIRITUAL CONNECTION for Ministry Health, PSYCHOLOGICAL CONNECTION for Mental Heath, and EMOTIONAL CONNECTION for Relational Health.
DNA of a CONFIDANT:
They will never betray your trust or expose what you share in confidence.
They don’t wait until you express a need,before they seek to meet a need.
They can know the worst about you, but never diminish your worth.
RULES OF ENGAGEMENT:
Don't share your pain with those who are not engaged in process.
Don't share your vision with those don't understand your values.
Don't share your vices with anyone who will exploit your weakness.
written by Ricky Allmon
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